Thanks, it is hard to convey this because those of us who have lived this experience are drowned out on the internet by all the men complaining.

Most of us Nordic men also start to take a lot of this for granted. I really didn't understand many American problems or even how good my situation was until I had lived in the US.

Ergo many living here in the Nordics wouldn't even share their good experiences as a man because for a lot of us it is invisible. We don't know anything else. I only know because I spent enough time in America, married to an American and followed US news and society for decades.

But I hope through my writing I can help bring another view. I actually came across you article because I was writing my own story criticizing anti-feminism today. The whole red pill stuff:

https://erik-engheim.medium.com/criticism-of-anti-feminists-67e4298439d9