You false assumption is that I am arguing against activists for men's victimhood. I am arguing against the rising misogyny happening online today led by the manosphere which seems to deal the clock back on women's rights. Part of that agenda is about trivializing women's problems and amplifying men's issues. I will argue you can tackle both issues without this kind of battle of the sexes.

We already have more serious discussions here in Norway about men's issues without this kind of manosphere attack on women.

I don't think you can compare shelters for men and women, as the outcomes and situations around violence for men and women in a relationship are entirely different.

I agree it sounds bad, but what the ratio should naturally be I couldn't tell you.